In-law Relationships
Mothers, Daughters, Fathers, and Sons
Author Geoffrey L. Greif and Michael E. Woolley
Reviews and Awards
"...highly useful to professionals and clinicians in training. Summing Up: Recommended. Graduate students, faculty, and professionals." -- J. Ostenson, CHOICE
"A well-researched book that speaks to clinicians, with insights that should also appeal to anyone about to become an in-law or who wants to improve their in-law relationships." -- Barbara Kane, LCSW-C, and Linda Hill, LCSW-C, Aging Network Services
"This book includes incredibly new information. The authors review what is already known, of course, but then they highlight the gaps by looking from a family-systems prospective, paying attention to male in-laws, dynamics between gay/lesbian couples and their in-laws, and the impact in-laws play in divorce. A particular bonus is the various different family therapy orientations for dealing with, confronting, and potentially mending and growing each relationship." -- Karen Gail Lewis, EdD, Licensed Therapist and author of Siblings: The Ghosts of Childhood That Haunt Your Love and Work
"I love the focus in this book on the wide array of in-law relationships — not just the negative and stereotypical ones, but relationships as they occur across a lifetime. The book does a good job noting the relationships and dynamics between men, which is easily looked over in discussions of in-law relationships. Whether you've just proposed to your fiancé, you're a new parent, you're a grandfather of six, or you're a clinical professional, this book is for you." -- Christine E. Rittenour, PhD, Associate Professor in the Communication Studies Department and Faculty Associate of the Center for Women's and Gender Studies, West Virginia University
"In-law relationships are an under-researched area, yet these relationships are hugely important and can make or break a marriage. Based on a large sample of in-laws, the authors unpack the different aspects of the relationships from the views of different participants. They explore the big question, such as: How can one enter a new family while maintaining a sense of self-identity and a loyalty to one's own family of origin? The book is full of powerful insights, and I strongly recommend it to family scholars, therapists, and even individuals who may be struggling to make sense of a new family." -- Ann Buchanan, MBE, FAcSS, LLD, PhD, MA, Senior Research Associate for the Department of Social Policy and Intervention at the University of Oxford and coeditor of Brothers and Sisters